I was a little sheepish about going into work tonight for 2 reasons:
1.) Tusedays are commonly known as "no tip Tuesday".
2.) I am coming off a long fun filled weekend and didn't feel like dealing with the type of guests who frequent Tuesday nights.
But alas! Sometimes life suprises you.
95% of my tables we actually pleasant people and not horrible tippers. And....
I got a phone number.
From a man that wasn't repulsive or weird looking.
Now, I am a happily married woman and I have no desire to look elsewhere. I actually laughed when I saw it because I thought it was a joke.
But there is a small part of me that also felt giddy like a little girl.
Since settleing into motherhood, the way you think of yourself changes. I haven't let myself go by any stretch of the imagination. But I also am not putting myself out there like I did in my 20's.
I feel fortunate to have a husband that still makes me feel good about myself when I know I look like a used piece of toliet paper, but there is something to be said about still attracting men that arent obligated by law to boost your ego.